A
cuckold is a married man whose wife has sex with other men. In current
usage it sometimes refers to non-married couples in committed relationships
as well, although the traditional meaning is a man whose wife is adulterous.
History
of the term Cuckold
"Cuckold"
is derived from the Old French for the Cuckoo bird, "Cocu" with
the pejorative suffix -ald. The earliest written use of the Middle English
derivation, “cokewold” occurs in 1250. The females of certain
varieties of Cuckoo lay their eggs in other bird’s nests, freeing
themselves from the need to nurture the eggs to hatching. In medieval
Europe, the law, custom, and the church all defined married women as a
category of property held by their husbands. Although Christian marriage
vows strictly enjoined sexual exclusivity in a marriage for both partners,
custom rarely enforced it on the husband (although Catholic doctrine holds
infidelity by either party to be a mortal sin).
A nuance of the word
often overlooked in contemporary usage is that it refers to a man who,
like the bird warming the cuckoo’s eggs, is unaware of his victimization.
A man who knows and acquiesced, in his wife’s taking of another lover
was called a wittol, itself a derivation from the Middle English for "witting
(as in knowing) cuckold."
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Cuckolds have sometimes
been written as "wearing the horns of a cuckold" or just "wearing
the horns." This refers to the fact that the man being cuckolded
is the last to know of his wife's infidelity. He is wearing horns that
can be seen by everybody but him. This also refers to a tradition claiming
that in villages of unknown European location, the community would gather
to collectively humiliate a man whose wife gives birth to a child recognizably
not his own. According to this legend, a parade was held in which the
hapless husband is forced to wear antlers on his head as a symbol of his
wife’s infidelity. Whether this did actually happen or not is irrelevant
to the phrase, which survived.
Ca. 1815 French satire on cuckoldry, which shows both men and women wearing
hornsThe French equivalent of "wearing horns" is "porter
des cornes" and is used by Molière to describe someone whose
consort has been unfaithful. Molière's L'École des femmes
(1662) is the story of a man who mocks cuckolds and becomes one at the
end. In Geoffrey Chaucer's Canterbury Tales (c.1372-77), the Miller's
Tale is a story that humorously examines the life of a cuckold. The genre
has recently been revived by Howard Jacobson in his 2008 novel The Act
of Love.
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Cultural
usage
In Brazil,
Germany, Bulgaria, Greece, Italy, Poland, Portugal, Russia, Croatia,
Hungary, Slovenia, Turkey, Spanish speaking countries and also Arabic
speaking countries, "horns" are a metaphor for suffering the
infidelity of a partner, not limited to husbands in modern usage. However,
the use of the term dates from the Roman empire, since legionaries returning
from the war were given horns as a triumph or prize. So, the use of
the term is a mockery of the husband, victorious in the battlefield,
but defeated in his own bed. The gesture of the horned hand can be used
to insult the cuckold.
The Italian
equivalent is cornuto, sharing the same exact double entendre with cornuted,
asserting both featuring horns and cuckolded. Its use is playful and
lightheartedly derisive, with little or no particular efficacy in scorning
someone during confrontations as it is lacking earnest damning credentials,
potentially leading all parties to a chuckle and smothering the feud
at its inception. A pervasive metaphor parodies the use of cornuto to
great effect: Il bue che dà del cornuto all'asino, meaning The
ox labelling the donkey cornute, equivalent to Pot calling the kettle
black.
In Portuguese
the terms corno ("horn"), cornudo or chifrudo ("horned")
are used to spite or mock the cheated male partner. The expression corno
manso ("tame horned") is used to indicate those men who, although
cheated by their partners, come to accept it as a fact of their lives.
The Spanish
word for a consenting cuckold, cabrón, has such an offensive
nuance that it is a taboo word rarely used with its original meaning,
"he-goat". However, according to the tone and the relation
to the addressed, it can be even laudatory.
The Chinese
term for "cuckold" is literally translated to "wearing
a green hat" (???, dài lu mào).[1] It is because
of this that it is extremely rare to see any Chinese man wearing a green
hat.[2]
In Trinidad & Tobago the term "horn" is used in conjunction
with cuckolds, or anyone of either sex who has a cheating spouse. Other
uses include "to horn" (to sleep with someone else's spouse),
"horning" (the act of cheating on your spouse), "horner-man"
(a man who is sleeping with someone else's spouse) and "horner-woman"
(a woman who is sleeping with someone else's spouse), "to get horn",
"to take (a) horn". It is usually used in a pejorative sense.
Numerous calypsoes have been written about the topic; the most famous
being "Horn Me Sandra" by the calypsonian known as Lord Kitchener.
Interestingly
this horn analogy extends even to Turkey where the cuckolded husband
is termed boynuzlu or the "horned one".
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Cuckoldry as a fetish
Cuckoldry
as a fetish has been around since at least the time of Leopold von Sacher-Masoch
(the writer after whom the term Masochism is coined). Sacher-Masoch's
wife, Aurora Rümelin, recounts in her memoirs multiple instances
of Sacher-Masoch asking, begging and even threatening her to make her
cuckold him so he could experience the pain and humiliation of the act.
To that end, Sacher-Masoch created multiple opportunities for the adulterous
act to occur, none of which were successful. While Rümelin indulged
her husband in many of his masochistic requests, due in large part because
of her dependence on him to financially support her and her children,
she steadfastly refused to cuckold him. Rümelin's refusal to succumb
to Sacher-Masoch's cuckolding fantasies was one of the causes of their
separation and her subsequent descent into poverty.[citation needed]
The term
has acquired additional meanings within certain sub-cultures, referring
to couples wherein the female is dominant and she takes on additional
partners, while the male takes on a submissive role where he is monogamous
to her, or only becoming involved sexually when it is felt to be emotionally
supportive of her and her lover, or remaining altogether chaste.
The wife
who enjoys cuckoldry is sometimes referred to as a hotwife or cuckoldress.
In a broader context, the contrast between a cuckold and the additional
male participant is sometimes used to summarize an individual's personality
or behavior and the variability commonly seen in male libidos; the cuckold
or beta male suggesting a lack of virility or smaller phallus and the
additional male participant or alpha male representing virility, potency,
a larger phallus, fertility, masculinity, strength and a sense of confidence
in the ease with which he may sexually possess another man's wife.
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Cuckolding among
female-dominant couples differs from the original definition of cuckolding
in that many of these men are willing to be cuckolded by their wives,
sometimes as part of the their sexual fantasy and sometimes because
they gain genuine sexual arousal through being humiliated by his wife
being better sexually fulfilled with a potentially superior male with
a far larger penis. In some cases the husband may instigate and nurture
his wife's sexual infidelity, raising the question of who is truly
in control. This is a common theme in letters to erotica magazines
and online sites which focus on cuckoldry.
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In most modern cases
of cuckolding, the husband usually finds pleasure through that of his
wife and they (the wife and extramarital participant) may both enjoy attempting
to actively include him in the act of cuckolding as much as possible through
serving her. Some common themes include praising her appearance, attempting
to stimulate her sexually at the same time as the additional participant,
and generally being engrossed in her enjoyment.
Some additional variations
might include grooming his wife for her date, or cleaning up the house
while the wife is on her date. Also, the husband may prepare the wife's
sexual partner by performing oral sex on him, or clean the partner up,
as to show further humiliation and/or where his place is in the arrangement.
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Cuckquean
The term
"Cuckold" is exclusively used for a male whose
wife takes other partners; a woman whose husband strays in such fashion
is known as a cuckquean. [3] There are cases of women who enjoy being
cuckqueaned, although they are probably less common than male cuckoldry
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Popularity of cuckolding
Cuckolding
has grown in recent years to quite a large subculture with many websites
and message boards such as cuckolds.co.uk on the subject.
Cuckolding
as a dominant voyeuristic act
While
the word origin and most historic accounts define the cuckold husband
as being submissive, powerless and/or in need of humiliation to receive
stimulation, contemporary practice suggests the possibility of something
altogether different. Rather than passively acceding to the infidelity
and desires of an errant wife, this cuckold is more in keeping with
the male partners defined in polyamorous, open, or swinging relationships.
In this
manifestation, the cuckold is a consummate voyeur who derives great
pleasure from seeing his wife or partner being pleasured and serviced
by another male(s). Although he assumes a submissive role and will often
assist during the course of the sex act, the "cuckold husband"
may actually be the controlling, dominant party in the relationship.
He may invite, encourage, and initiate consideration of the practice
with his partner, and may be the one to make arrangements and approve
how, when and with whom his wife may have the intended encounter.
Often,
the excitement of the encounter with third parties is followed by more
sex play between the relationship partners. The encounter becomes an
aphrodisiac, helping to initiate and enhance further sex play between
them, as visions of the encounter are revisited and replayed during
subsequent love making sessions. It is quite common among swinger couples.
Many start out in the swinging lifestyle and branch out into the cuckold
lifestyle. As they find that the male partner much prefers to share
his mate with others rather than have intercourse with other females.
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Female dominance
Female dominance (or Femdom) refers to BDSM activities where
the dominant partner is female; the submissive partner may be of either
sex. A female dominant is sometimes called a domme (pronounced /'d?m/),
femdomme, domina, or dominatrix. In the English speaking world, "mistress"
is by far the most common dominatrix title, while in most of continental
Europe, the most common titles are, and some are etymologically related,
maitresse, maid, maidress, matress, mother, mate, madre, or momina. The
most common dominatrix title in the Spanish language is "ama."
The equivalent Japanese term is ??? (joosama, or queen).
Femdom activities may draw on all areas of BDSM. Feminization and strap-on
dildo play are common activities, as well as panty fetishism and boot
worship. Cuckolding is also an area of female dominance.
Erotic humiliation can focus on the inadequacy of a male's penis, demoting
it to a plaything for the dominatrix, over which the male has no control.
Related femdom activities include ballbusting, cock and ball torture (CBT),
verbal humiliation, forced chastity, orgasm denial, and forced homosexuality
(in which a dominant female forces a heterosexual male to engage in homosexual
acts for her amusement, or as part of feminization) - an example of this
dynamic occurs at the climax of the novel Venus in Furs.
Many participants in this lifestyle conform to the safe, sane and consensual
and RACK models prevalent in the BDSM community.
Light female domination scenarios may involve various forms of orgasm
control, such as tease and denial and tie and tease, forcing their cuckold
husband to watch them have sex with other men, as well as ageplay, erotic
spanking, cunnilingus and body worship, especially foot worship and ass
worship. Heavier and more intense female domination scenarios may involve
facesitting or smothering, which tend to focus on the sub giving the dominant
female oral pleasure, or the dominant female performing anal sex on the
sub using a strap-on dildo (see pegging). Other forms of more intense
female domination can include face slapping, hair pulling, caning, dripping
hot wax on the genitals and heavy whipping. For these purposes, note the
issue of legal consent which may or may not represent a defense to criminal
liability for any injuries caused.
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Sissy
Because of its origins in a feminine nickname, sissy is
also a pejorative for a boy or man to indicate or imply that he is like
a sister, that is, effeminate and fails to behave according to the traditional
male gender role. Generally, it implies a lack of the courage and stoicism
which are thought important to the male role. It might also imply interests
seen as strikingly un-masculine. This pejorative may be given to anyone
as an insult. Several variations, such as "sissy boy" or "sissy
baby", exist and any term can become pejorative or insulting if preceded
by "sissy" and applied to a boy or a man. Sissy is the male
converse of tomboy, but has none of the latter's positive connotations.
Even amongst gay men, behavior thought of as sissy or camp produces mixed
reactions. Some men reclaim the term for themselves. (See also genderqueer).
Other similar terms include "wimp", "wuss" and "femboy".
Forced Feminization
In erotic and psycho-sexual terms, Forced Feminization
(a.k.a. "sissification") is sometimes used to describe the
practice, especially in female dominance, of switching the gender role
of a male submissive. However, it is also sometimes associated with
sexual reassignment, which may be sought by a transgendered individual.
It is usually achieved through cross-dressing, where the male is dressed
in female attire, ranging from just wearing female undergarments to
being fully dressed in female attire. Some males take on tasks, behaviours
and roles that are overtly feminine, and adopt female mannerisms and
postures in task such as sitting, walking and acting in a feminine manner.
"Forced Feminization" is when the man is told to put on women's
clothes and instructed how to behave and talk. What makes this fantasy
difficult to understand is that the submissive male (while pretending
to be reluctant) actually wants this treatment.[1] Their protests and
demands for the treatment to stop are often surface deep, while their
arousal and deepest fantasies crave the fantasy to continue with even
more intensity. This emasculation may be coupled with punishments such
as spanking or caning to gain cooperation and heighten submission of
submissive male. In practice, the man has consented to the feminization.
Probably the most common modern incident of true "forced feminization"
is sexual slavery in prisons (although the rate of prison rape is controversial).
For this reason it is not uncommon that men with "forced fem"
fantasies also enjoy "prison rape" fantasies, although there
are some heterosexual men who only have interest in feminization by
women. Additionally, statistics have shown that many homosexual or bisexual
men enjoy gay pornography, with the single exception being feminization
or other scenarios that puts women in the "dominant" role.
Costumes are sometimes very domestic, suggestive of servitude or ageplay.
The clothes may be those of a traditional submissive female role, such
as schoolgirl, secretary or "sissy" maid. In certain cases
the feminized or sissified male can also be restrained in devices such
as posture collars, locking high heels, and locking dresses. Traditional
bondage restraints may also be used to immobilize the male in helpless
and exposed positions or to prepare the male for corporal punishment
or anal penetration. Such control techniques are used by the dominant
female to impress upon the male his submission to behavior modification
and feminization.
Naming may also be employed. Feminization can also involve the conversion
of a masculine name into a feminine name such as "Stephen"
into "Stephanie", "Joseph" into "Josephine"
or "Daniel" into "Danielle". Although there are
several irregular names that do not follow this model, such as "Samuel",
which turns to "Samantha", in general, feminisation of a masculine
name is achieved by adding an [a] or [i] sound to the end of the male
name. The submissive male may also be given a feminine name that is
not similar to his male name, designated as "a good girl",
or called explicitly female insults, such as "slut" or "whore".
The male's penis may also be renamed a clit or clitoris, his anus as
a vagina or "hole", while his nipples may be referred to as
breasts.
Forced Feminization may also include the male receiving anal sex from
a female using a strap-on dildo (sometimes called pegging), or Forced
Homosexuality from another male using his penis to accomplish anal sex,
or by the feminized male being forced to perform oral sex on the penis
of another male. Another form is orgasm control, usually through the
use of a chastity belt or cage. Feminized males may also just be receptive
to partners in a pure homosexual relationship through the acts of oral
and anal sex.
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